Author: Kayfromhome
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When God gives you a bad gift.

Vanity, pride, and a deep love for pretty things bred a severe self-loathing at my mediocrity. Anyone smarter, lovelier and more talented was automatically categorized as “enemy”—specially favored and preferred by God.
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A Gathered People

We have turned independence into isolation. It has become less natural for us to be together than it is for us to be apart. Community is more than a 2017 buzzword. It’s necessary for living a healthy life.
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My Life is Full

My life is full to the brim of photos depicting a life that looks nothing like the one I planned to have, but oh, how unremarkably beautiful it all is.
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Can I still be a Christian on the days that I can’t stand anyone?

To be human is to be imperfect. In fact the word “human” in the dictionary is synonymous with the word “flawed” and “frail.”
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Isolation, Social Silos and this thing called Social Anxiety.

Social anxiety is a condition that seems to have become rampant in recent years. It used to be that if an individual had trouble interacting with others, it was a personality quirk… Not a disorder. These days, things are a little different. Many would much rather text than call, and a ringing phone is enough…
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God won’t give you more than you can handle… and other drivel not found in the Bible.

I grew up hearing the phrase, “God won’t give you more than you can handle.” It was meant as an encouragement. Buck up, kiddo. You’re stronger than your circumstances. You can get through anything with God and a little bit of elbow grease. For a time, I believed that. I lived as if God would…
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When Being Busy Isn’t Beneficial: Why we need more margin

Ah, vacation. When else can you justifiably wake up at 9, lay in bed until 2, and do nothing but scroll through facebook and read books all day? Without feeling guilty, that is. Now that school is back in session and Fall is right around the corner, there’s a summer-lovin’ part of my heart that…
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Going Home… and other things that feel like going backwards.

Sometimes going home feels like going backwards.
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The Duplicity of Authenticity

People demand authenticity and flinch at honesty. They recoil at vulnerability like we’re embarrassed by the “over share.” It’s no wonder we’re so lonely.
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When love is right, there is no pebble.

A pebble in my shoe, very much like a single pea beneath the mattress of a princess—that’s what wrong love always felt like to me.